THE TRANSITION JOURNEY
The transgender journey is one of transformation and has deep roots
in our civilization going back to the time of Jesus and before. Just as Jesus went through rites of
initiation we too are going through spiritual transformation as well as physical
changes. Everything that Jesus went
through was of his own creation and so he embraced each challenge as a
gift. From before he was born it
was known that an enlightened Master would come to show the way of Christ
mindedness. What I am suggesting
here and now is that you too are on this journey! Especially those of us that are going
through gender transition. Indeed
gender transition is a rite of passage just as Jesus and many others have
experienced in their lifetimes. I
want you to understand just how important what you are doing is. Jesus changed the world and so can you
in the process of completing your transformation.
In this look at transition I will be using Jesus as an example but
there are many others and you can find the most appropriate for you. First of all let us look at the
crucifixion as a form of limitation.
Jesus’s body was quite literally nailed to the cross or bound and limited
in its function. Now since Jesus was aware of his co-creation role with the
divine his attitude about his predicament was that of acceptance of divine
order. Our role as transgender
persons is much the same as Jesus, since we see our bodies as a limitation from
expressing who we feel we are. Our
physical forms are limited in our view and our passion is to free this physical
expression and make it in harmony with our souls. Acceptance of this role as a co-creator
with the divine spirit is the first step in making the transition a successful
one. Just as Jesus was a courageous
brave soul who shared his love to show the way for the rest of humanity we too
are showing the way for all the transitioning individuals to come.
“Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.” Just as Jesus probably
felt pain as he walked his journey of crucifixion and resurrection we too will
feel some pain. All people do,
however suffering does not have to be involved! Please understand that since Jesus was a
conscious co-creator in his journey he did not suffer! Indeed he chose his path and
walked it in honor! Suffering is a
resistance to what is or a stubborn refusal to accept that you created your life
just as it is. For example, if you
were to get a pebble in your shoe and as you walk it hurts – this is pain. If you were to stubbornly refuse to
accept that you have the power to change this situation and remove the pebble
then you will suffer until the pebble is removed. To relate this to the transition
journey, if you stubbornly refuse to accept that you have chosen this journey
long before you were born and refuse to change what appears to be “the way it
is”, you will suffer. By
recognizing gender transformation as a life journey and accepting it as a gift
you will forgo much if not all of the pain and suffering involved in
transformation. If we are to
believe much of the stories about how Jesus suffered as he carried his cross and
then was crucified upon it then we will be missing the whole point of his
journey. Likewise if you believe
the stories that say that transgender is abnormal, strange, or wrong then
suffering will be your path, however if you can come to the realization that
transitioning is as normal as breathing then you will be free to enjoy the
journey.
We are
not our bodies! This realization
should shake you to your soul! It
certainly did for me and I know that Jesus was acutely aware of this also. The transgender journey is one of
awakening to the Truth, be it apparent or actual. It is also one of finding harmony
and purpose, and then demonstrating that to yourself and the world. Even though it may appear that Jesus
“died on the cross to absolve your sins”.
I would like to point out that the Truth is that he did not die and was
resurrected three days later to live again. In fact, there is no sin to absolve!
We are Blessed Co-Creators of God,
made in God’s own image and endowed with God’s creative abilities! This is Jesus’s message to us that we
are each a child of God and these things we will do also and greater. The transformation journey is no
different from the crucifixion and resurrection. Just as Jesus’s body was laid to rest
only to rise again, the transitional journey also represents this in the form of
lying upon the operating table in one physical form only to rise hours later in
a resurrected form that represents our harmonious soul expression. So see yourself as the Christ and know
that there is divine purpose behind your journey. In reality all humans are walking the
path of Christ and are simply expressing this in different forms. My goal here is simply to awaken you to
your divine heritage and bring the realization that you are the Christ! Transitioning is a metaphor to the
awakening of this divine heritage, or a rite of passage much like Jesus
demonstrated 2000 years ago! Accept this gift and suffer
not! Be the divine person you are
guided by Spirit to be and let go of the crucifixion. Be instead the Resurrection!
Once
this realization is lived fully and our souls are satisfied with the
transformation the last and most glorious step is the ascension. Jesus was resurrected to deliver the
glory of his message to his disciples so that they could spread the message to
the masses. Our journey is no
different! We are to
experience our transformation in the fullest form we are lead to demonstrate and
after we have been resurrected we are to take this message of eternal life to
all people everywhere. Be not
afraid to express fully the Joy you feel as the harmonious, loving, vibrant
person you are. Share your glorious
journey with the rest of the world and be comforted in knowing that all is in
the divine plan. When our bodies no
long serve us we will move on in a very natural way to even more glorious
expressions of the most High, which is ascension defined. May we all be Blessed in our Journey of
Love!